Sometimes we have to let other people to do good things to us. It doesn’t mean that we are weak, or incapable of, or dependant. Sometimes we just have not to think that they have some other motives to help us. It’s just that we give them a chance to do good deeds, a chance to help, to give to others.
We already know the wonderful feelings of giving, so why not let them feel it too? Don’t be so selfish, only wanting to give but not letting people give something to us. They need it, and we deserve it. Be kind to ourselves for once. 🙂
So, try sometimes to just accept the good things people want to do to us. Just accept their good deeds, smile, and say “Thank you.”